Congratulations! You’re unlike many of my other dear readers.
You’re in a perfect spot if your ex-boyfriend replies to your text messages quickly. Our goal is to keep you there.
I believe it says a lot about you, dear reader. You have managed to stay on good terms with your ex. He has enough respect for you to reply quickly, which has many unspoken messages in and of itself. Let’s take a look.
Your ex isn’t playing games if he replies to texts quickly.
A lot of people play texting games. Think back to dating and the questions that filled your mind. Are you texting back too fast? Are your texts too long? Who should text first?
For some breakups, texting is the source of HUGE anxiety. Lucky for you and the ex, you can communicate with integrity. It doesn’t sound like games are being played.
That speaks volumes about your intentions. I feel they are good on both ends. I’m proud of you, dear reader!
It can help your healing when he replies quickly.
Sounds like you and your ex-boyfriend have healthy communication. Assuming your conversations with this fast texting ex remain friendly. Without healthy communication, moving forward together is impossible. If your goal is to get your ex back, replying back fast is a good sign.
No contact isn’t necessary when ex-boyfriend texts back quickly.
Many ex’s feel the need to go no contact with each other. This is often done to encourage healthy contact from their ex.
No contact can be excruciating. The people experiencing no contact are wanting exactly what you have.
So, nourish the respect you and your ex share by also replying back timely.
Is your ex-boyfriend texting fast because you’re in a fight?
Are you in a texting battle with your ex? If so, it’s time to stop your participation in the fighting.
If he’s texting back fast, but it’s negative, that’s not healthy. Dear reader, I want you to be healthy.
Don’t text him anymore if it’s a fight. Please just wait it out another 24 hours minimum. Otherwise, it may not be long until you’re searching for ways to apologize to your ex. Don’t say anything you don’t mean. Take the high road now while you’re still ahead.
You’ll thank me for this advice later. Hey, you might even want to take the SIM card out of your phone if that’s the only way to stop fighting.
Again, fast texting in a fight with your ex is not healthy. This means nothing other than you’re both harming your health and chances of reconciliation.